卑微文学bēi wēi wén xué

Humble literature

bǎo, wǒ tài bēi wēi le.宝,我太卑微了。Babe, I’m so lowly.

灯灯, the Dengdeng mascot, kneeling on one knee and holding up a single red rose with its head bowed

, “humble literature”, is a style of mock love note in which the writer grovels to a partner who does not care. The lines usually start with , “babe”, and often end with a pun.

Took off
2021
Started in
Douyin videos
Today
Fading

What it means

means lowly or humble. The posts play a lover who gives everything, gets nothing back and still finds a way to feel fine. They are written to be funny: the more devoted the line, the better.

A typical line, quoted by 36Kr: ,。?。 “Babe, I got an IV drip today. What was in it? Every night I miss you.” The joke is that , “liquid”, sounds like , “night”.

How people use it

The video trend has faded. itself is still common: , “I’m so lowly”, is an ordinary sigh when you have to beg for something small, such as a reply or a day off.

里昂
  1. ?

    nǐ gěi lǎo bǎn fā xiāo xi le ma?

    Did you message your boss?
  2. ,

    fā le sān tiáo, tā hái méi huí

    Three messages. He hasn’t answered.
  3. ?

    nǐ xiě de shén me?

    What did you write?
  4. ,?

    lǎo bǎn nín hǎo, míng tiān néng qǐng bàn tiān jià ma? bù xíng yě méi guān xi

    “Hello boss, could I take half a day off tomorrow? It’s fine if not.”
  5. ,

    hā hā, zhè shì bēi wēi wén xué ba

    Ha, that’s straight out of humble literature.
  6. ,

    méi bàn fǎ, qǐng gè jià dōu zhè me bēi wēi

    What can I do? Even asking for time off means groveling.

More examples

  • ,。

    bǎo, wǒ děng nǐ de xiāo xi děng dào bàn yè.

    Babe, I waited for your message until midnight.

  • ,。

    wèi le qǐng yì tiān jià, wǒ tài bēi wēi le.

    All this to get one day off. I’m so lowly.

Where it came from

From March 2021, Douyin had many comic videos in this style, according to 36Kr. It came a few months after , the humblebrag style of late 2020, and many users copied it fast.

Its Douyin hashtag passed a billion plays by June 2021, according to 36Kr. Articles from that year give different counts, taken on different dates.

The original. Short videos in which a creator reads a groveling love note to a partner who never answers, often opening with “babe”. 36Kr described the trend in June 2021. 36Kr (in Chinese)

Sources

Checked November 2026. The picture at the top is our own drawing of 灯灯. It is not the original meme image.

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